what a difference....

A pregnancy makes. This was me at 21 weeks with James. I swear it looks like barely a bump to me now although I am sure back then I thought I looked huge. If only I knew what a belly looked like the 2nd time around. I am sure with each pregnancy it just gets bigger much faster.

And here I am at just barely 20 weeks (half way done!). Don't mind my bad posture or facial expression. It had been a long week.

Tell me that belly doesn't look way bigger! Well, maybe just to me.

Since I have barely written about this pregnancy, I wanted to write a few things.

I am super excited to be pregnant and to be having this baby. boy. I feel like it was meant to be since it happened so quick! That really caught me off guard. I thought for sure it would take a few months and that our boys would end up being a little over 2 years about instead of 21 months apart. It will be a little crazy but a lot of fun... I hope :) This pregnancy is flying by! If it weren't for my belly, I would forget I was pregnant. James, work, friends and family have been keeping us busy. I have not been reading any baby books. I do get the weekly emails to remind me what is going on in my body. I still can't wrap my head around the idea that a baby will be here in just a little over 4 months! And with the holidays... that is going to fly. We don't have as much to do to prepare for baby Davis, but we have lots to do for James. We need to get his new big boy room ready. Buy a bunk bed and then somehow transition him into there before that baby comes. My plan is to get him use to sleeping in there at night and then still put him down for his nap in his crib. Just to keep him contained while I can. Anyway... with this little guy I have been way more tired. People might say it is because I have James to take care of and I am sure that is part of it, but I can just feel it in my bones that I am more tired. I have been sick more times with this pregnancy and I am not talking morning sickness. I have had a stomach virus twice, a sinus infection and other infections I don't want to discuss here. Top that off with the gestational diabetes and you would think I was an unhealthy person! But this little guy has thrived. He is growing at a perfect rate. Everything about him looks healthy. That makes me so happy. Most moms would agree that all we really want is a healthy baby. Little D.Q. is a mover. I started to feel little movements as early as 14 weeks! And then more consistently around 17. I love that part about pregnancy. It is such a nice reassurance that everything is OK. My back has been more achy. Probably because I am doing less pilates and yoga and lugging a 16 month old around. I really would love to take more classes, but finding the time and a sitter sometimes is just more work than it is worth. I try to do my home videos, but I really don't love to work out at home. When I am here there is so much more to do!

I think that is about it for now. We love you little DQ. Please don't feel neglected by our lack of attention. We will make up for it when you arrive.

BTW... we scheduled the c-section for March 15th (The Ides of March or as Haws might say "The Corporate Income Tax dealine"). There is a chance it might be the 16th. We will see.

Trip to the ER

It has been a tough weekend at our house. It all started Sat night. Luckily Haws came home early Sat from Texas instead of Sunday. Otherwise I would have been dealing with this all on my own.

Sat we went to a Halloween party at my friend's house. There was about 20 little kids there and I am just hoping James didn't get any of them sick! He seemed totally fine that day. He had a little cough and not a huge appetite that afternoon, but I didn't think it was a big deal. At the party he was playing a acting normal. He even ate a decent amount for dinner. Then... we got in the car to drive home. I thought he would fall asleep for sure, but he didn't. Right as we were pulling up to the exit, he started coughing and then throwing up all over himself and the carseat.

It was so sad and quite the mess. Then we got home, gave him a bath and he throw up again. From there on out he was throwing up about every 20-30 minutes, but would go back to sleep after each one. I called the nurse line and at first they said just to watch him. When he threw up for the sixth time he was spitting up something that looked brown so I called again and they said to take him to the ER. So off we went at about 1230am. He was still dry heaving and spitting up brown stuff when we got there so they tested it for blood. It tested positive and was probably just from tears in the stomach or esophagus, but they had to do blood tests to make sure it was not internal bleeding. This was when it got bad. Because he was so dehydrated, they couldn't find a vein. They poked him in both arms, while Haws and I held him down. He was screaming and struggling to get loose. It was horrible. Finally they called someone from the lab to do it and she got some blood. Then they recommended an IV and some anti nausea medication. Again, they couldn't find a vein for the IV. When the needle was in they kept moving it around trying to get the vein, but his crying was causing the vein to close. I started to cry and Haws was getting mad. Then a girl came and got the IV in his hand. Once he had the IV he fell asleep and we had to wait for all the tests to come back. He was clear for internal bleeding and once the IV was done he just had to drink something and then keep it down. He downed a apple juice and kept it down. He didn't throw up again once we left around 5am. We got home and all went to bed. Woke up around 9am and then I started. I had it all day Sunday really bad and then have been achy with a sensitive stomach today. James seems fine since he woke up Sunday. Then Haws, who took care of us all day Sunday, came home from work around noon sick. He seems to be feeling a little better now. Hopefully we will all be better in a couple of days.

The IV in the hand. They had to board it up and cover it so he wouldn't pull it out.

I think this is the sweetest picture. James fell asleep on Haws after all the trauma. Haws got a few zzz's in as well.

16 months

I am behind on updates for James. I am just going to post a bunch of my favorite picks from the last month and give a couple of notes about new skills/behavior.

He has been a little more clingy. I don't know if he notices my belly growing or if it is just an age thing.

Here are his stats from his 15 month check up:

32 inches tall (75%)

21lbs 9oz (10%)

Head is in the 50% percentile.

He is still our long and lean little boy.

He is down to one nap these days. It is nice is many ways when he takes a 3 hour nap! But some days we might only get an hour and a half and those days are a little tougher. It is nice when we can get so much done during the day because we don't have to be home bound at two different times of the day.

We watched cousin Monte over night (it was quite the treat... he is so lovable) so the bouncer was out. James was really into the bouncer. I kept finding him in it.

I was able to take this picture before he ripped off his special KINGS beanie.

Playing with chocolate pudding. My mom gave me this idea. I remember seeing picture of me doing the same thing when I was little.

Ready to go to the "Boo at the Zoo". 

Pumpkin Patch. These places are a little out of control these days. Rides, petting zoo's the whole works!

Enjoying some cheddar crackers.

His first meeting with Mickey. He was a little nervous about meeting him at first but then warmed up and gave him a kiss on the nose before we left.

James loves: 

giving kisses

riding on anything... his zebra rocking chair, in his wagon, in toy cars, boxes, etc.
his daddy
sesame street
mickey mouse
planes
dogs
making messes by emptying drawers and cabinets
exploring
phones
climbing
books
balls
bike rides
his giant teddy
the trash can
and there is so much more.

James does not like:
going down for a nap
having his diaper changed
when mom or dad leaves
being put in the stroller when he wants to run around
when he cant push or close something any farther
It seems like there are more, but I cant think of them at the moment.

Oak Glenn

Brooke and John have made it a tradition to go to Oak Glenn each fall to get pumpkins and enjoy the festivities. 

Joshua made a whole gallon of apple juice. It was a group effort since it was so much work.

A little Tantrum while taking the picture.

He gets over it pretty fast.

I wanted to put this picture in of us at Disneyland. We are the trying to go as much as possible before my pass expires in Dec.

Utah Visit

We had planned a trip to Utah the 2nd weekend of Oct to go up for our new nephew Rocky's baby blessing. We were looking forward to going up and spending time with all the Hexberg family and seeing Dana and Chase as well as the Larson's and Schantz'. It was going to be a packed weekend. And then Dana and Chase had their twin boys the Tues before we went up!!! I was so excited I was going to be able to meet the twins when they were so brand new. So excited that I forgot to take any pictures with them while I was there! ugh. I did steal one from Dana to share with everyone though.

I guess I didn't think to take my camera out very much because I also missed getting a picture of cute Rocky, Winnie and Thor! I am hoping Jared and Sarah will send me some that they took. Rocky is a cutie, but I wouldn't expect anything else seeing how the other too are adorable. The blessing was so nice. Jared did a great job and it was so eloquent! 

Haws and the boys were able to go to a BYU game on Sat thanks to my dad and Stockard letting us have their tickets. I got to spend some extra time with Dana and the twins while everyone was at the game. They are so sweet. It is crazy to see them so fresh and new. I forget how tiny babies can be. Even though James was not quite as small... he just seems huge now compared to a newborn. Good thing since he will be a big brother soon... that is crazy. I am looking forward to going up next month and helping with the twins. I am sure they will have changed so much.

Sunday night we went up and spent the night at my Aunt Nancy's. I love her! I always feel so at home when I go and visit. She hosted a dinner for us with some of my cousins and it was just nice to be with all of them again. She made the best soup ever! I am going to make it sometime soon and will post it when I do. 

Monday we tried to pack in some fun before we flew home. We went to the Witchfest at Gardner Vilalge (same place Brad and Kori had their reception) and then the gateway mall. James loved all the witches. I was worried he might be scared of them, but he thought they were great. There are a lot of cute shops down there and I recommend going if you are there when it is going on. OK... now for some pictures that I DID take.

 Finally would wear his beanie. I guess it needs to be cold for it to happen.

 SLC Temple.

Can you see my bump peeking out? It is a lot bigger now!

 This is Rocky and Thor when he was born. Still need to get a current picture.

The twins! Tate and Porter. Is this not the sweetest picture you have ever seen??? They do sweet poses like that all of the time. You can tell they have a special bond.

Did I mention...

IT"S A BOY!!!!

That is right. Another boy to add to our little clan. We found out Sept 13th and both Haws and I were shocked! We both totally thought it was going to be a girl! But it was clearly evident that this little one is a boy. I guess you never really now until they are born, but we are pretty darn sure. We found out this early with James, so I was expecting to find out when we went. I was just surprised to see boy parts! 

We have had a boy name picked out for years (we have a girl one too but then we are out of ideas). This little guy will be Davis Quinlan (my maiden name and Haws' mom's maiden name). We are very excited to have  little Davis and I know he and James will be total buddies. Since they will be about 21 months apart, I am sure they will play together and also fight a lot. That will be part of the fun... right?? We know Davis is suppose to be in our family and anticipate his arrival.

This will be Grandson #9 for my parents and Grandson #7 for Haws' parents with only 1 girl representing for each family... so far. We know how to do boys around here I guess.

14 Months

A little update on the latest with "Baby" James.

He has 7 teeth. That means he went from 0 to 7 in just 3 months. He has been busy.

He is walking!!! It started off slow. But now he walks everywhere around the house. His favorite thing to do is carry something with him as he walks and put it somewhere new. Trash cans, balls, shoes...

Knows how to throw a good tantrum. He throws is head back and arches his back as he cries. Luckily they don't last very long. He can turn things on and off really quickly.

Separation anxiety. He now will cry when Haws or I leave. Again... this doesn't last long either.

Points at everything! Points when he wants something, when he sees or hears something. He is starting to communicate more which can be nice, except when he wants something he can't have. He can be a little demanding that way. 

Laughs so hard and loud at the funniest things. I wonder if he laughs so hard he pees? Probably.

Loves to be around other kids. Even though he pretty much parallel plays. He does like his personal space though and can get upset if a kid is poking around up in his face too much.

Scared of men with facial hair. This is sad for his Uncle Wade, but we are hoping he will outgrow it soon.

Has discovered how to unroll the toilet paper roll. Bathrooms are pretty much always closed around here now.

Loves to take all the Tupperware out of the drawer. This is a mess, but it is pretty harmless, so if it keeps him entertained while I cook... then go for it James!

Is a really good eater except when he isn't feeling well. But I can relate, so I don't blame him. He lives off cheese and carbs when he is sick, but with still eat his broccoli!

Still barely making 20lbs. He is a lean little guy. I wish I had his abs.

Likes Elmo and Sesame Street, Mickey Mouse and Sports although he doesn't watch TV really. Those are just the ones that will catch his attention for maybe 5 minutes max. I always tried to not expose him to TV (except if I was watching something in the background) but once the morning sickness hit, I really wished he was a child that could be glued to the TV for 30 minutes or so. :)

Loves loves loves his monkey blanket or "lovey". He now will go and pull it out of the crib so he can carry it around the house. I wish that never started. Now monkey is always getting dirty.

HE CLIMBED OUT OF THE PAC N PLAY!!! This was scary. I was in the shower thinking he would sit in the pac n play with his toys like normal, but he was mad when I left. SO I was trying to take a quick one when I heard a thump and then crying that got closer and closer to the bathroom. Then there he was, at the bathroom door. I was so glad he wasn't hurt, but am still baffled as to how he got out.

He can climb up onto the couch. He has lots of upper body strength. 

Could go up and down the stairs all day! Another one that is tiring. I can't wait for Haws to be done making the baby gate!!!!

This thing has shown up on his neck that looks like a little red mole. I have seen them on my mom and other adults, but I guess kids get them too. It called a cherry hemangioma and is harmless, but weird looking I just want to pop it! But I guess that could cause severe bleeding, so I won't. My mom says it should change color and fall off. I will have the pediatrician check it out at the next visit.

OK... I think that is it for now. 

Love his face here! He is actually enjoying the swing.

His preppy look.

And this is him walking around today after church. Notice all the shoes, he had been carrying those around. Then he moved onto the ball :)
  

 And the Tupperware past time.